Cruises ~ Are they for you?

couple on cruise deck

Many newlyweds are looking for unique, experiential honeymoons. When it comes to taking a cruise on a river or in the ocean, it’s pretty tough to go wrong. Both offer incredible views, luxurious amenities, and the opportunity to explore interesting ports.

I have one friend that recently returned from a Christmas Market River cruise in Europe with Viking Cruises. I also have friends leaving on a New Year's weeklong Caribbean cruise with Royal Caribbean.

I, personally, have been on two Caribbean cruises, one when I was a senior in high school and one for the 10th anniversary of my first marriage. I will admit that my severe claustrophobia, along with cruise ship horror stories have dampened my cruise quest, but lately I am rethinking that, especially on a smaller ship.

Which is right for you? Ocean or River...or maybe both? Each type comes with its own unique perks, and depending on the specific needs for your next trip, you might find that one is a slightly better fit than the other. So what are the major differences?

One big difference can be summed up in one word: intimacy. River cruises tend to be much smaller (190 max vs. up to 6,200 on the largest ocean cruises), and as a result, you’re much more likely to be interacting with other passengers and crew members. My friend found this to be true on her recent Christmas Market River cruise. There was a group of couples that ate together all week and really got to know each other.

Amawaterway river cruise

That smaller scale translates to all areas of the river cruise. You dine on a regular schedule at tables with other passengers (wine is included in the price of the cruise). Instead of 50 different things to do on board, amenities tend to be more modest with river cruises — think libraries, a workout room, cultural programs, and free Wifi vs. ten kids’ playrooms, glitzy Broadway shows, and a skydiving simulator. There tend to be fewer kids on river cruises, making them popular for couples seeking quiet and relaxed time together.

You stop almost every day at a new port with river cruises, often for walking tours through quaint towns with little tourist traffic, and you’re always in view of land. With ocean cruises, you can go days without seeing land, and ports of call and excursions tend to be more exotic and high-adventure.

Travel & Leisure - Royal Caribbean

Because of their larger size, ocean cruises offer plenty of options for many ages, from young kids to octogenarians, and they are often more able to accommodate a wide variety of special health needs. For this reason, they tend to make the best option for multi-generational family gatherings that include young children. For the traveler who is into high-octane adventure, ocean cruises provide a wide variety of activities on board, as well as exotic and more daring day excursions.

River cruises do tend to be more expensive per person — but that price also includes more things. Ocean cruises have a lower sticker price per person, but you are often charged extra for alcohol and other amenities.

When you’re getting ready to plan your next on-the-water trip, here are a few questions to consider:

  1.  How many people are traveling? What are their ages?
  2.  What time of the year do you want to travel?
  3.  Do you need the amenities of a mega ship — spas, gyms, a dozen restaurants, and many activities? Or are you looking for something calmer, more intimate and easy-paced?
  4.  Are you seeking authentic inter-cultural experiences? Or do you prefer more familiar settings?
  5.  What type of destinations do you want to experience? 
Couple on beach, cruise ship in background

Many cruise companies offer both ocean and river cruising. A few of the best rated cruise companies are Crystal Cruises, Tauck, Viking, Amawaterways, Uniworld and Silversea. Click here to read an article in Town & Country about the best luxury cruise lines in the world.

Paul Gauguin is a smaller cruise ship (332 passengers) that offers cruises in the shallow waters of French Polynesia. This is definitely on my bucket list. 


I also would love a land/river cruise in Africa or Cambodia & Vietnam. I recently learned about Amawaterways which offers river cruises in both of these destinations.

What is your preference, ocean or river? Comment below on your past or future cruise experience(s).

Whatever you decide I am here to assist you in your water getaway. You can email me